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Dorthea Tower, 84

September 02, 2025

NORTH ADAMS, Mass. —  



Dorothea Arlene (Bessette) Tower, 84 of North Adams died on Tuesday, September 2, 2025 at Williamstown Commons. She was born on July 11, 1941 in Burlington, Vermont, a daughter of the late Robert Bessette & Doris (Allen) Bessette-Pepin.



Dorothea attended schools in North Adams including Drury High School. She was last employed at Steinerfilm in Williamstown until her retirement. She loved dancing, bowling, and reading, and was a member of the Red Hat Society. She was a past President of Ladies Auxiliary North Adams Eagles and State President of Eagle Ladies Auxiliary.



Dorothea was the widow of Henry Miles Tower who died on December 16, 2018. They were married on September 15, 1977. She leaves her daughters, Patricia Primmer (William) of Stamford, VT, Sherrie Tower (Tobias Daza) of Adams, MA. She also leaves her two sons, Alphonse Phaneuf of CT and Douglas Phaneuf of Leeds, MA. She a leaves three stepchildren, Stephen Tower (Lynne) of Charlotte, NC, Brenda Piscioneri of Adams and Gordon Tower (Melissa) of Adams, MA. She also leaves 16 grandchildren, 21 great grandchildren, two brothers, Robert Bessette of Dalton and Michael Pepin of FL. She was predeceased by her stepson Wayne Tower and a brother William Bessette of Vermont.



FUNERAL NOTICE: A celebration of the life of Dorthea Tower will be private. Flynn & Dagnoli Funeral Homes- Central Chapel 74 Marshall St. North Adams, MA 01247 is entrusted with arrangements. To add to the book of memories please visit www.flynndagnolifuneralhomes.com




Recollections & Sympathy For the Family
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Patty and family my deepest sympathies on the passing of your mom.
from: Kimberly Bissaillonon: 09-13-2025

I worked with Dot for many years at Steinerfilm. I don't recall Dot ever being in a bad mood. She was always smiling! I enjoyed her company and i'm sad that we lost a great lady. My condolences to her extended family.
from: Jim Wolfeon: 09-12-2025

So sorry to hear that you lost your stepmom, Gordon and Missy. She looked like such a beautiful lady.
from: jerry and lee jetteon: 09-11-2025

My sympathy to the family. Fly with the angels Aunt Dot.
from: Gloria Hiser on: 09-10-2025

I am sorry for your loss.
from: Jennie Pierceon: 09-10-2025

My condolences to you all on the passing of your mom. I remember her from years ago. She was a nice woman.
from: Erica Pecor on: 09-10-2025

Dot wasn't just my friend, she was family. As all you are. I share in your grief. So many memories. . Noel ,and Angel-Rose send hugs and thoughts. AJ send hugs and always talks fondly of pop and Dot
Love hugs and prayers Tammy and family
from: Tammy Bostwick on: 09-10-2025

My prayers are your family. She was a nice person
from: Nanette Schmidt on: 09-10-2025

So sorry to hear of Dot’s passing. We have many happy memories with her and Henry at the Eagles. May your memories help you through this difficult time.

Dennis& Willie Gajda
from: on: 09-09-2025

Our thoughts and prayers to all Miss Dottie's family and friends. I feel very blessed to have known her and spent time with her thru the Eagles. Sleep sweetly with the Angels Miss Dottie. You will be missed and never forgotten. ?
from: Susan Sibley/Tom Charronon: 09-09-2025

sorry for the loss of your step mom gordon
from: KEITH ZAVATTAROon: 09-09-2025

Brenda and Gordie.
So sorry for your loss on Dorthea.
from: Maureen and Dave Gon: 09-09-2025

Dot and my mom, who passed last November were good friends in their younger days. I also remember Dot and her husband being dancers at the Eagles functions that our band played. She was a sweet person.
from: patricia a marklandon: 09-09-2025

So sorry to read of Dot’s passing. May she now rest in peace and be reunited with passed family members. It was always nice to see you Dotty !!
from: Debbie Mendelon: 09-09-2025

May she Rest in Peace! We shared many laughs and a few drinks at the Eagles when we were members of the Auxilliary.
from: Marsha Mon: 09-09-2025

Very sad to learn of Dot's passing. We had many fun times together. I'll miss that laugh and that welcoming smile.
from: Sharon Oakeson: 09-09-2025

I am so sad to see this! I absolutely loved and adored this sassy lady! She brightened every single day I had with her.
from: Kelley Wilsonon: 09-09-2025

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